I've been through all sorts of experiences in relationships. I've been the 'victim' and the aggressor. I've been lied to, and I've lied myself. I've been hit, and I've slapped on many an occasion. I have seen many lovely people get caught up in toxic relationships that involve different forms of violence; verbal, emotional and physical. Yet I somehow believe there are no victims in relationships, and there's always two sides to the story. If both people in the relationship were communicating with strength, honesty & balance, how could it come to violence? Isn't it our manipulation, our changing between the roles of the victim and the aggressor (and not just being honest and clear) that causes so much frustration and anger?

Are we just not yet equipped with enough understanding of ourselves as individuals, and the psychology of relationships to avoid so much drama? How can we have more fulfilling relationships? What can be done about domestic violence? I hope you guys know more about me and can enlighten us with insight. . . Emily :)